It’s still a taboo topic:
sex. Sleep deprivation may be a hot topic lately, but few people consider the
toll sleeplessness has on a sex life. An article I read on WebMD
summarizes the relationship between sex and sleep very well. The highlights:
- Sleep disorders
and chronic sleep loss put a serious ding into a sex life. No surprise there.
When some partners resort to separate
bedrooms due to snoring, sleep apnea, or restless sleep, that pretty much
rules out any opportunity for spontaneous action.
- The effects of
sleep deprivation—low energy, fatigue,
and sleepiness—won’t inspire sex. No surprise there either.
- Men with obstructive
sleep apnea (OSA), an inability to breathe properly during sleep,
commonly report low libidos and sexual
activity.
- OSA may be
associated with lower testosterone
levels. A 2002 study of men at the Technion Sleep Laboratory in Israel
found that nearly half of those who suffered from severe sleep apnea also secreted abnormally low levels of testosterone during the night.
- Sleep loss can
make you quarrelsome: you’ll be “feisty”
in an irritable kind of way—not a sexy kind of way.
- Sleep loss makes
you less able to cope with life’s ups
and downs. Sex can be a great stress reducer, but if you don’t have energy
for it, then that reduces your opportunities to unwind.
- People with insomnia are also less likely to engage in social activities. This doesn’t bode well
for the single person looking to make an intimate connection.
Okay, so I’ll stop there
because I could go on and on about the link between a healthy sex life and a healthy
sleep life. I could argue that you can’t have one without the other.
Given the fact our
relationships constitute the heart and soul of so much of our existence, you’d
think we’d all preserve those relationships as best we can to in turn enhance
the quality of our lives.
And I’m not just talking
about the intimate relationships we keep for which sex is part of
the equation. I’m also referring to the fabric of our social lives in general
that makes us human and interactive with other people in platonic ways. When we’re
sleep deprived, we’re not much fun to be around and we cannot work on the
relationships that add to our well being.
So it’s a forgone
conclusion: focus on healthy sleep. Watch everything in your life go up a notch
or two—from your bedroom to your boardroom.
Sweet Dreams,
Michael J. Breus, PhD
The Sleep Doctor
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